Be, Do then Have not have do then be

In order to have what you want to have you have to be it. You see, people are taught from a very young age by the society that to have what you have in order to do what you want to do then you can be what you want to be. But it is the complete reverse. You have to be unconditional love to have unconditional love in the form of giving then you receive.

If you want to have changes in your life then you have to be the change in your life. You have to be the one who step out and be the change. We are all leaders of our own life. So if we don't start a change no one around you will change. Everything starts from ourselves. We are the ones who influences others and they influence others.

So when you be aware, you will have clarity. Awareness comes in different forms of ways and anytime. It all depends on us to catch what we are thinking. Our mind is constantly rich with thoughts but we never narrow it down. When we do so, then we are starting to have awareness and clarity. It requires us to be very present and align our mind, body and spirit to be aware and have clarity. When we stay present means that we stop thinking about the things around us.

We have to stay very present and align in order to have very good clarity. Then we can know what it is that we want to do and the intention of it. If we know what we want to do then we will get things down quickly and without any mistakes. That is doing things with our heart. When we are doing things we don't expect a result. because expectations leads to something that you don't want.

when we know the intention of the things that we want to do. then we can do things more better with commitment. when you have commitment, and clarity then you can see your vision very clearly. when you think you don't see the vision or your vision is not clear then it must be that you have lost your clarity. and you have to start all over again.

when you have done all these things then it is time for you to accept what you get in return. because we have to know that we cannot change the world but we can only change ourselves. if we choose to change then others can feel the change within us. then they will change with us. if they don't change then it is up to them already. it is their choice to change or to stay the same. we cannot force others to be like us. everyone is unique. and we have to accept that. it is the fact.

Bake-a-thon & more..

Hey, my fellow readers. Sorry for not updating the blog for quite a while. Well, I am going to update with you with what I had been doing for the past few days. Let's see... homework, homework homework, and wait something else, nah, still homework. Ha ha. Oh, to make you all think that my life isn't that boring.. There is something new I can share with you. My mother and I had a bake-a-thon in the kitchen. I guess there isn't such thing as a bake-a-thon. But, I just invented it on Saturday night! Thanks to me now there is such thing as a bake-a-thon. WOOTS!!
Ok, now straight to the main point. During the bake-a-thon, my mother and I sort of bake/made 4 things in one go! 2 cakes, 1 Asian cake which we call "kuih" here in Asia, and 1 jelly! He he. Just to let you know, my definition of jelly is more like pudding kind of jelly. And jelly are my favourite so my mother kindly taught me how to make it as a reward for helping her..

Practically everything came out successfully except for the kuih. I guess the lesson was don't do 4 things or more in one go.. Ha ha, cause I am a multi-tasking person myself too. I always thought that multi-tasking makes things better.

Other than the bake-a-thon, I also am writing my own book! I don't wanna get your hopes up but it is more towards teen readers, romance. It isn't done yet because I am currently working on Chapter six and it is on page 47 now. Yea, I wouldn't call it much too. But it is going to finish soon enough, I guess.

So far, my mother's cakes has been successful enough to open a bakery shop. Ha ha I'm sure she can make good business out of it. She made chiffon cake, muffin, brownies, cupcakes, pies, Asian cakes. Lots more are coming their way. All mothers can always be very creative in some ways. Just like my mother and I. We follow the recipes and we add our own ingredients... I wish you all here to enjoy these lovely things that comes right out of the oven, but  I guess I can only spread it out to the world with my words.

Well, I guess that's all for this time. I promise to update you with everything interesting that come up right in my mind. Unconditional love from your blogger, this is TheGirlInBlackCardigan signing off.